If you want to know how I ask a girl out. First I build connection with her and then I plant some seeds about wonderful bars or restaurants that I like (I describe them vividly), when I see what place she responds best to, I go back to that venue later on (the seed is planted).
If she have already said that she love to eat pancakes, next time I tell her “We should go eat those pancakes tomorrow!”, it’s hard for her to refuse it and she has already fantasized so it should be something she is looking forward to.
After you know what she like you can also make up a story about what you gonna do at that pancake place…
You can do like this, ask her: – Do you like pancakes? (most girls love pancakes).
The girl: – Yeah… I love pancakes!
You: – I know this small pancake shop in (some place) that make the best pancakes, everything is homemade, they have strawberry, blueberry, rasberry pancakes with cream, and then some chocolate on top.
We should go there, it’s next to this wonderful park, that have this small lake… I go there sometimes to just relax, it’s a fantastic place. Just continue making up a story where you and her are together doing something romantic (don’t make it too cheesy though).
I'm Steven.