How To Ask A Girl Out
Here are a few tips:
1. Get her attracted to you. The most important thing is to make her attracted to you, if you don't succeed with that your chances will be limited (I will tell you how to get a girl attracted to you soon).
2. Plant seeds. When you are with her... get to know what she likes to do. When you have a common interest like bowling or whatever... tell her that you know this really nice bowling place... it was to be something she is excited about. Describe the place so she can imagine it and look forward to go there.
3. Ask her out. If she is attracted to you and you have planted the seed... you now just need to ask her out (the work is already done)... just text her or call her... tell her that you guys should go bowling... and decide a time and place where to meet.
Here are some things you should think about
4. Don't label it as a date, just tell her that you should do "whatever you are going to do"
5. Don't be needy... don't panic if she doesn't respond or answer... give her some time (maybe even a day or two) to get back to you (I have waited for over a week one time :).
6. Don't take her to a restaurant or a place where you can't be physical...
If you really want to learn how to attract a girl and ask her out... then you should check out this video (it's the same technique I use, continue reading to find out how well it's been working for me).
I recommend you to read the entire page...
Hi, I'm Steven
Here is my story of how I learned
a really good way to ask girls out.
I have always been pretty shy, so meeting girls have never been easy for me.
One time when I asked a girl out she just stared at me like I’ve just insulted her, then she ran away.
Another time I took a girl on what I thought was a date. In the middle of the “date” her boyfriend came and sat down with us. It was really awkward.
Let’s just say, I’m not a natural born talent at this ☺.
However, things changed.
I got tired of being rejected or put in the friend zone. So I studied every single technique to ask girls out.
After a few months of research I found one of the best techniques. It was about
“how to read a girls mind”. It wasn’t exactly what I was looking for, but it turned out to solve all of my problems.
This is what I learned:
Girls are not attracted to the same things... there are actually 8 different type of women. This technique you can identify a girls type and then learn what she is attracted to.
It’s easy as hell to identify a girl’s type (you just have to ask her 3 questions). Then when you know her type, you just act in a way that she finds most attractive.
After using this technique it doesn’t matter what I say when I ask a girl out.
She is already hooked on me.
The first time I tried this technique out I was with friend at a bar... My friend knew 2 girls at this bar, one brunette and one blond... We sat down to have a drink with them... I started using my technique on the blond girl first.
I could see that she got more and more interested the more I showed my attractive qualities... All of the sudden the brunette wanted to be involved into the conversation.
I did a quick read on her and discovered that she was the same female type as the blond.
Here I sat with two girls that both were attracted to me and wanted my attention. I went home with the blond girl that same night.
A few days later, I got an sms from the brunette saying she wanted to meet me because I was so interesting (my friend had given her my number).
Now about 5 months later I have a gorgeous girlfriend. She’s a head turner ☺.
If you also want to learn this technique:
Click here to check out the video!
How to ask a girl out guide
To learn how to ask a girl out you can't just read blog posts or watch youtube videos. You need to get your mind thinking. What you need is a complete system. I suggest you to stop searching for "How to ask a girl out on a date" or "Best ways to ask a girl out" and take action to really get good at this.
As I have said in my previous articles, it’s usually not good to label it as a date. It shows much interest. Of course it depends how interested she is, but a good rule of thumb is to tell her that you should meet.
I get many questions from guys asking me “How to ask a girl out on date”, I usually tell them to read my story. Before you ask a girl out it’s good to know how to attract women. It’s all layed in my story.
The best way to ask a girl out is probably to go under the radar. You should first get to know her, then you have to build connection and attract her you can read more about that in my story click here to check it out!
After you have attracted the girl, it will be pretty easy to her out on a date. You can read more about how I ask a girl out on a date here.
There are many ways to ask a girl out. What you shouldn’t do is to take a girl to a restaurant or a cinema, these are classic places to take a girl out on, but they suck.
Here is why: When you eat a dinner or go to the cinema, you sit far away from each others.
In a cinema you don’t talk for a minimum of 1 hours and 30 minutes, this means that you are not building any connection.
I would say that the best way is to take her to a place with sofas and low volume lounge place where the light is dimmed. Here you can talk and build connection, touch each others, and kiss.
If you want to know how I ask a girl out. First I build connection with her and then I plant some seeds about wonderful bars or restaurants that I like (I describe them vividly), when I see what place she responds best to, I go back to that venue later on (the seed is planted).
If she have already said that she love to eat pancakes, next time I tell her “We should go eat those pancakes tomorrow!”, it’s hard for her to refuse it and she has already fantasized so it should be something she is looking forward to.
After you know what she like you can also make up a story about what you gonna do at that pancake place…
You can do like this, ask her: – Do you like pancakes? (most girls love pancakes).
The girl: – Yeah… I love pancakes!
You: – I know this small pancake shop in (some place) that make the best pancakes, everything is homemade, they have strawberry, blueberry, rasberry pancakes with cream, and then some chocolate on top.
We should go there, it’s next to this wonderful park, that have this small lake… I go there sometimes to just relax, it’s a fantastic place. Just continue making up a story where you and her are together doing something romantic (don’t make it too cheesy though).
If you want to ask a girl out you need to be creative. Don’t tell her that you are going on a date, that reveals to much and show that you are interested.
A while before you ask her out, tell her about this new bar that have amazing strawberry mojitos (make up a story that makes her feel desire for it).
Then maybe an hour later you can tell her that you guys should go to the mojito place.
Choose a venue that has many sofas, so you can sit next to the girl. And don’t take her out for dinner, it’s much more stiff! You sit far away from each others she might feel bloated after eating.
I'm Steven.